I’ve visited areas where my mates have said grindrs dead, I get there and my Grindr goes off.
I’d tell people that Grindr is quiet where I am. But I’ve already made my friends, worked out who I’m compatible with… And they figured out if they liked me.
When my mates come here they get a lot of messages too.
I think it’s just someone new in the area and his inbox was thrashed.
Saying it’s a bit full on doesn’t seem douchey too me.
Alternative is seeming rude & ignoring everyone… I’ve gone to new towns & phone has crashed 3 days in a row due to being unable to handle volume of incoming messages, so if we assume ignoring people is rude, is telling them why they’re not getting a reply really so bad?
People in the comments section are missing the point. The fact he’s letting people know he’s had a lot of messages doesn’t make him a douche, it’s the fact he feels the need to state the volume e.g. 200+
“People in the comments section are missing the point. ”
Well, no actually. Many of us aren’t. But, I’ll elaborate as you continue.
“…it’s the fact he feels the need to state the volume e.g. 200+”
And, unfortunately for you, babes, that itself doesn’t necessarily make him a douche.
If for whatever reason he has that many posts (maybe he hasn’t deleted old ones?), he may just be explaining why he couldn’t get to everyone right away.
I’m not all that attractive (I don’t think). I get 200+ posts when using Scruff or Adam4Adam. I make an effort to respond to everyone, but almost never can do it timely. If I left an impersonal message on my profile to inform people that I can’t get to everyone right away because I had so many posts, does that make me arrogant? Or perhaps courteous?
I’ve visited areas where my mates have said grindrs dead, I get there and my Grindr goes off.
I’d tell people that Grindr is quiet where I am. But I’ve already made my friends, worked out who I’m compatible with… And they figured out if they liked me.
When my mates come here they get a lot of messages too.
I think it’s just someone new in the area and his inbox was thrashed.
Saying it’s a bit full on doesn’t seem douchey too me.
Don’t hate me because I’m beautiful.
Alternative is seeming rude & ignoring everyone… I’ve gone to new towns & phone has crashed 3 days in a row due to being unable to handle volume of incoming messages, so if we assume ignoring people is rude, is telling them why they’re not getting a reply really so bad?
People in the comments section are missing the point. The fact he’s letting people know he’s had a lot of messages doesn’t make him a douche, it’s the fact he feels the need to state the volume e.g. 200+
Mmm not really douchey if u don’t like the sound of him he’s not being racist etc just move on
See this could be meant in a nice way rather than conceited you don’t know.
I dont see whats so bad about this one. He was simply explaining why you may not get a response. I didnt detect any arrogance in that statement.
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“People in the comments section are missing the point. ”
Well, no actually. Many of us aren’t. But, I’ll elaborate as you continue.
“…it’s the fact he feels the need to state the volume e.g. 200+”
And, unfortunately for you, babes, that itself doesn’t necessarily make him a douche.
If for whatever reason he has that many posts (maybe he hasn’t deleted old ones?), he may just be explaining why he couldn’t get to everyone right away.
I’m not all that attractive (I don’t think). I get 200+ posts when using Scruff or Adam4Adam. I make an effort to respond to everyone, but almost never can do it timely. If I left an impersonal message on my profile to inform people that I can’t get to everyone right away because I had so many posts, does that make me arrogant? Or perhaps courteous?