No Blacks? Really?

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17 thoughts on “No Blacks? Really?”

  1. I’m black, and I’m not really into black guys, but I will not say no. I come across a few black guys that I thought were hot. But I’m nothing like this prick. I think there is a better way of saying you’re not into certain race. But hey we have our likes and dislikes.

  2. This guy reminds me of my ex who is african american + puerto rican. Who dates everyone who isn’t black. SELF HATRED at it’s finest. Sadly there are many black guys like this one, and my ex. Who hates themselves.

  3. Embarrassing, id never date anyone like this, just based on principle. If a spanish guy didnt want to date me bc im spanish, id be really hurt. So he needs to just accept his blackness, and stop acting like its a bad thing because no matter what he does he will always be black.

  4. Considering how many white men are on grindr that put no blacks (no offense), this is hardly a drop in the well. It’s not racist to like who/what you like, but it sure as hell is rude to state it on a service where you can easily ignore anyone you’re not interested in.

    If you’re not into me, don’t talk to me, it’s that simple.

  5. Mixed my ass! If he is mixed I must be mixed as well. We are the same complexion. I hate when people who are not white will go out their way and say “no ”

    Nothing like self-hatred.

  6. Ok he is BLACK, no where near mixed with anything. But someone else said, the number of guys on grindr that display racism is quite surprising. I live in Texas and every I go down here there are at least 30+ profiles that say “no” simply based on race

  7. So many like self-hating Sha, though. A professor named Dwight McBride devoted an entire chapter in his book Why I Hate Abercrombie and Fitch to black and brown online self-hatred and the contemporary vogue for self-describing online as “mixed” instead of black to please white folks. It’s like the Black Power movement, black self-love, and black liberation never happened. These kids are more f*cked up than their great-grandparents ever were in terms of loving themselves and being proud of being black. Do white folks describe themselves as “mixed” or anything but white? And to think we actually have a black president now and these black kids get worse and worse. Can’t anyone reach them before they turn into race-sick, self-hating MFs like this “Sha” person?

  8. No matter what race you are,if you can’t see the beauty and sexiness in your own race that is a serious problem. But the bigger issue is where this all stems from…in gay culture,the “IF IT AIN’T WHITE,IT AIN’T RIGHT” mentality prevails. In the media,in porn,at clubs…we are bombarded with the message that only white gay men are considered sexy/beautiful.

  9. Sha could be Puerto Rican, Cuban, Dominican, or Brazilian. But I’m sorry, honey. You could sit a bathtub full of bleach and all you’d ever be “mixed” with is Clorox! You ain’t ever gonna be anything but black sugar so you might as well embrace it!

  10. This guy has a common attitude among many black gay men. It’s a natural (sad, but true) response to the racism that exists in the gay community. Yes, it exists in the real world too, but has a deeper effect in the gay community.

    @Ziggy: Preach, man. Preach. You are so right on!

    @Matt: Sorry dude, but you are way off point. A white guy not being attracted to other whites is different from a black or asian not being attracted to their own. Whites are not discriminated against (save the reverse racism speech because it won’t sell here) and have no reason to feel insecure. Whites are validated in the gay community all the time. Blacks and asians are demoralized and demonized. That’s why your statement doesn’t hold water. If you can’t understand this, it’s ok. We are not on MTV’s The Real World and I have no desire or need to educate you.

  11. Ok, my ancestors were black, indian, white….but I identify myself as black. I love that I’m black and never imagine myself as anything other than black. If I were to label myself as “mixed” I probably couldn’t help but feel artificial for attempting to appear as something I’m not or as though II was trying to dilute who I really am. I’m gonna save the rant, but yeah my bf is white and a sexy motherfucker, but I have been attracted to a member of every race male and female. It’s things like this, I just don’t understand. I have a friend like Sha, very sad. Well, good luck in your endeavors Sha.

  12. I agree with Matt #14. I’m a big guy…and I’m not into other big guys. They don’t turn me on…it’s not self hate. If I said women don’t turn me on, would that make me a chauvinist pig? No…it means I’m gay…and not attracted to women. Same thing goes for other big guys…I’m not attracted to them. HOWEVER…I wouldn’t put it in my profile “no fats” etc. The negativity is a problem. If he had said, “I’m really into white guys” I wouldn’t have a problem with that. I think people need to look at themselves and ask are they pissed off cuz this guy is truly racist (debatable) or because they are offended that he’s not into them? I’m used to guys not being into me cuz I’m big. It’s not what they’re into. I totally get it…but I WILL say…politeness about it is the only non-DB way to handle it.

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